Harley Davidson Haden 9/9/2000 - 02/01//06

We said our final goodbyes just about an hour a ago.
Harley was put down at the local ASPCA. They did not allow us to go into the room which was probably a good thing. We hugged and kissed him goodbye and told him that we were letting him go, so he could finally feel better. We brought him home with us and Billy just finished burying him in his favorite spot under the tree that he used to sit under for shade. We removed the tree last year....but Harley never seemed to notice and still sat in that spot.
It was so hard to let go. I ran back in twice to give him more kisses.
As I finally walked away from him for the last time.... I told him to go and play with Sadie (My sister's dog that passed last year that he was very fond of) I also told him he could bury as many bones as his big heart desired and I would meet him again at the bridge.
I know he is in a better place now, but my heart is breaking.
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Elissa -- I am so sorry for your loss. I'm all choked up and don't know what to say. Very sad news. Sweet dreams, Harley. . . :(
Oh I'm so sorry Elissa :(

You did everything you could... you and your family gave him a wonderful life, and also the kindest gift you could give at the end.

*hugs*
Oh Elissa, Harley had such opportunities with you and I just know he appreciated everything you did for him.
He looks very noble in your pic.
Elissa,

I avoid going to this section of the forum because it makes me so sad, and I never know what to say. I've never experienced the loss that you have and I can only imagine how painful it must be for you and your entire family. I don't know what will happen the day that I have to face what you've faced--but I hope when I do--i will do it as bravely as you have. *hugs* to you and your family.
Elis...I am so sorry...Please give Billy my condolences too...Harley is in a much better place now...my heart is breaking too for you guys!
am so sorry for your loss. I know this is a very difficult time for all of you and my thoughts are with you.
Elissa and Billy,
Words cannot express the emotions that someone watching this situation evolve feels right now. We all knew it was going to come to this, but it is a shock just the same. You were brave to see him through this, and he is no longer in any pain. Bless you.
I'm sorry too :(
To Elissa and family,

I know you're grieving terribly right now and I'm so sorry to hear of Harley's passing. The choice you made was not an easy one, but due to his illness you were brave and did what was best for him. I wish you hadn't had to go through that and take solace that Harley had some happy moments this week. In time the pain will be replaced with happy memories. My condolences to you all.

Marianne and the boys
Elissa and Billy,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You did a very difficult thing for Harley's benefit. Give your other dogs --and each other-- an extra hug frmo Joan and me.
Elissa I am so teary and sad for you, Billy and the children. You did the right thing by harley and you also gave harley the best possible life ever, he was loved and adored and part of your family. Even though a life cut short, a wonderful, fullfilling & much loved life he had.

(((Hugs)))) to you all at this sad time and special Hug to billy for the loss of his special boy. :cry:

It is never easy and takes time to get over, but sweet memories do blossom and keep alive forever the ones we love that are no longer there.
:cry: So sorry :cry:

Sending lots of (((HUGS)))


Kim & MAIZIE
elissa billy and family i know what you are going through right at this moment. as you know i had to put my beloved sweet little girl down on tuesday. :cry: :cry: My thoughts are with you at this time. you never know my brave girl and your brave boy could be playing together at this time. such a horrid thing having to let our loved ones go. but atleast they are both out of pain now. ((((hugs to you all)))))
i'm so sorry einy and i send hugs to you and your family

its a very hard thing to do and you areso brave to do it
you have all ready done the best thing in memory of harley to adopt rags and they got to play together.

i know how your son must be feeling as we lost our german shepherd in a very simular way when i was a little older than he is now.

i know that there are no words that can comfort you but please give all your babies (both 2 legged and four ) extra hugs from einy and myself plus extra hugs for you and billy coz you need them too


love zoe and einy
Elissa and Billy (and kids!)
I've wondered over the last week what was happening but didn't dare ask. I'm so sorry that this terrible moment has finally arrived. Hugs and sheepie kisses ( and maltese licks) to all of you and always remember there is nothing like the joy of puppy love to hold in your heart and remember forever. Cry the tears but remember the love and happiness that Harley brought to your lives and the great memories you will hold forever!!!

Ginny Tasker & Ty
Elissa, Billy and kids.

I know all to well how you feel. My heart goes out to you and family. You did the right thing. We had to put Kassie down just under 2 yrs ago at 12 yrs of age. And we lost Fergie 3 months ago.

There is no wasy to take away the pain you are in. My prayers are with you.

Hugs to all of you.

Deana, Richard, Flannigan and Cinde
I'm sorry. :cry:
I'm crying with you, too. Just so sorry for your loss. :cry: :cry: :cry:
So very sorry...
Diane :cry:
Elissa and Billy,
I am so sorry to hear of Harley's passing, even though we knew it was coming. How touching of Billy to bury Harley under his tree. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief.
Chris
Elissa,
I am so sorry. Harley was so happy with you guys, but he is now without the pain he was suffering for the last little while. I'll be thinking of you guys...
I too am so sorry for your loss. Take time to remember the fond memories, they will get you through. Give the two leggeds and the four leggeds some extra hugs, that always makes me feel better.
Elissa, so sorry for your loss.
Elissa, I'm so sorry! Big hugs to you and your family.
We knew this moment would come, but it still doesn't make it any easier. You gave Harley such a wonderful life and a chance to know and feel love. We are thinking of you! Hugs and Kisses!
Dear Elissa,

I'm so very sorry to hear of Harley's passing. We have lost another member of our extended sheepie family, and I grieve along with you. All of our love to you and your family as you mourn.

Karen, Mike and the Kitty Girls
My deepest condolences. For as long as you can remember Harley, your heart will ache; with sorrow for the loss and with joy for having shared your life with such a wonderful creature.

sheepieboss
So sorry for your loss Elissa :cry:

Hugs to you and your family from me and mitch.
im so sorry to hear about harley :(
walter and i are thinking of you and your family
Elissa, I am so sorry about Harley, he had a great life with you and Billy.
Big hugs from all of us.
I am saddened by your loss! I

too had to put my German Shep down last year......it is such a hard thing to do and to live through, but it does get better. It will always hurt but the pain does lessen!!! PROMISE!!
I'm sorry Elissa. Your family loved Harley so much.
We're sorry.
ELissa, Billy and Kids,

Sorry to hear about Harley. A tough decision to make but in the end it was the right one. You will see him again someday. You gave him a great life.

Hugs and kisses

Chelsey and Bunkie
Elissa and family,I rarely come int this section due too its just too hard too read about the pain of loosening a beloved pet.When i saw it was your beautiful Harley I had too come and say IM so sorry.Through the sories of your silly pets it shined brighty how much you love all your fur babies.Your such a loveing family.Just know how happy you made Harley he will always follow you through your life,and all you do for the poor fur babies w/o homes will payoff through the love you recieve from these wonderful creatures.

Again we all are so sorry for your pain...
I'm so sorry, Elissa.

Jil
I'm sorry for your loss, Elissa. At least his suffering is over now.
Elissa,

I'm so very sorry about your loss of Harley. He was well loved by you and your family, be comforted by that.

Hugs to you all.

Leslie
My condolences to you and billy and the family. It's so sad to say goodbye, but at the same time it was the right decison. It's probably why I don't come to the section either, but Harley's story really touched me, and I just wanted to say I'm grieving with you.
Thank you everyone! Big hugs to all of you. You have all been such a wonderful support system for me and my family.
I hadn't responded earlier because it was just so hard for me to read your responses. I had to run to answer the phone today and usually Harley would always appear out of nowhere in front of me in the hallway, walking slowly like my Grandmother. I could never get around him and would usually miss the calls. I missed that today. Never thought I would. Also Peanut was barking at Pepsi and Harley used to HAVE to jump in and bark for the heck of it. It is very strange without him. Especially walking into Hayley's room in the morning. Harley was always right by my side to check on her. :(
Elissa, I'm so sorry for your loss! :cry: Pam
Oh Elissa - I just don't have any words right now. (((HUGS))) I'm sorry.
Oh Elissa my heart is breaking for you. You all did so well in taking care of Harley right to the end.

My thoughts are with you all during this hard time.
Very sorry to hear about Harley. Very sad.
I am so sorry for you and your family. Even though I wasn't a member I was following your situation with Harley and you did everything you could and more. He had a really good life and I remember the picture of him running in your yard. You have a HUGE heart and I am sorry it is breaking. I am really amazed at your ability to go forward. That is really to be admired. My condolences.
Thanks Everyone :)
Sorry, I kinda of abandoned this thread. I just couldn't bare to look anymore. Something happened just the other day that made me think of him. Remember the "Peanut Oil Incident" Well the stain reappeared on the couch the other day after I vacuumed the couch, where Harley had puked. When Billy & I noticed it we started laughing. I guess I have to hit it again with the Little Green Clean Machine. This requires another trip to Walmart to get more fluid :roll:

We are trying to focus on all the happy memories of Harley. I miss kissing his BIG FACE!!
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