Scarlette Magnolia, Maggie for short

I'm new to this site, and I have been reading about the loss of many people's OES and just wanted to send my sympathies to all, and know that I too share your pain. I had to put my sweet girl to rest 2 weeks ago, and I really haven't breathed since then. Her name was Scarlette Magnolia, Maggie for short and she was my first OES, my fisrt dog, my very best friend in the world. I had her from the time she was 8 weeks old and she never left my side. The last few months she was unable to get up under her own power, so I carried her everywhere she needed to go, but even that wasn't enough. I could tell her pain was getting worse and it got to the point where I had no other choice. I was able to hold her and tell her how much I loved her and that everything was going to be ok, I repeated it over and over in her ear while the medicine was injected. I felt her body relax in a way that she had not felt in a long time. Now I have to fix this crater in my heart. I still walk in the door expecting to hear her bark at me to "come" to her, ( she could be rather bossy). There is no way that I could ever replace Maggie, but I know that when the time is right another sheepdog is waiting out there to come home with me.
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Alice Marie, I'm so sorry for your loss of Maggie. We've all been there, and it is truly the hardest thing you'll ever do. I could hear your love for Maggie in your post, and I fully understand. It will get better in time, I promise.

You're right, when the time is right, you will again open your heart to another sheepie. They're addictive - once you have one, you're hooked for life.

Welcome to the forum!

Chris
Welcome Alice Marie-

It sounds like Maggie was a lucky girl to have you. The only thing that helps is the passage of time.
Hi AliceMarie

The pain you feel is to be expected and this is the place to be able to share it with those that understand. We know that Maggic was more than a dog to you , she was your friend and family member. She was always there even in times when you didn't look your best or felt down..she didn't care, and loved you with unconditional love. It sounds like you did the same and she was lucky to have been able to share her life with you. She was a much loved sheepie, that I have no doubt from your post.

The pain eventually subsides and sometimes is triggered by memories of what used to be ..but it does get better. I was grief stricken when I lost my Shaggy last year and then as if meant to be ..someone posted about a boy that had suffered horrifically in his short life and needed a home. With Shaggy's passing I was able to do that. He was not a replacement for her as no one will be a replacement for your Maggie. They are all unique and special. In your own time you will be able to once again open your door and heart, for another Sheepie and Maggie will be smiling at you from the Rainbow Bridge. You'll return here and post a fond memory of happier days of her antics and her character, when you're ready.

Hugs to you and so sorry about your loss

Marianne and the boys
Alicemarie-

Very sorry to hear of the loss of your Maggie.
Fill the crater of your heart with the sweet memories
of her and the happy times you both had together.....

Very happy you found the forum, please know we
are here to support you.

Many of us have stood where you are now feeling devasted
by the loss of our Sheepie. Time heals....and you will
again open your heart to a new Bobtail, not to replace
but to continue the beautiful experience of having
the company of a lovable OES.
Take the time you need to heal...there will be a beautiful
OES to comfort you when you are ready.
And Maggie will always live in your heart.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you...

Zahra
AliceMarie,

Thanks for sharing about your wonderful "bossy" Maggie. I know you loved her and I understand your pain. I still think about Muffy my OES that I had for nine years since I was twelve. I'm also approaching that time with my current baby Mopsy who is ten. But like I told my twenty year old son the other day - while sheepies are similar they are each unique with their own little quirks - so he may never have another like her. And my son told me a few months ago that he feels like he knows Muffy, who died when he was a baby, just because of the stories I share.

Time will pass and you will laugh and you will still get choked up because Sheepie Memories are the most wonderful.

Your in our thoughts. Take care and check in to let us know how you are doing.

Judi
I just wanted to thank all of ya'll for the kind words of comfort sent my way. Ya'll are the sweetest group of people that I have ever had the pleasure of getting to know. Of coarse OES are great judges of chahacter so I should not have been surprised!

I somehow managed to upload some pics of Maggie yesterday ( I know enough about computers to know that I really don't know what I'm doing!) But they are there if you would like see my girl.

Thanks again
AliceMarie
Hi AliceMarie,

I saw Maggie's photos in the OES photos, in the puppy section and first portrait. She was such a beautiful girl! I especially loved the one of her between the fence.
Thanks for sharing them with us.

Marianne and the boys
Hi Alicemarie,

I am so sorry for your loss. The love you have for her is so evident in your writing. She knew she was deeply loved & adored and she returned that tenfold, I'm sure.

Jil
I am sorry sorry to hear this, I had the exact same problem, only my guy was 2 weeks short of 14. He could still eat and was alert but when he could not get up on his own even after we bought the thing to go under their stomach to help him up, I knew it was time. I miss him to this day, it was six months June 15th. Time, will heal but I also have other pets but I still miss him and my 2 other babys very much, actually today is the 2nd anniversary of my little Chloe.

However, good news, we are picking up Guinness on 7/15 and I'm excited, you were very lucky to have such a wonderful bond with your beloved pet. God Bless!

Shoregulls :(
Welcome to the forum alicemarie :)
So sorry about your loss.... she was a beautiful girl... and looked so happy and loved.
I'm sor sorry to hear about your loss. Sadly a lot of us find this forum after the loss of our furry kids as I did myself. I hope that you find comfort and share some of the stories with us about Maggie and only you will know when the time is right to get a new addition in your family.
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