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If you found out info would you tell the person who it affects but it might make the person sad but you don't want to spread rumors should you just leave it alone. :( :cry: It was a sad day when I found out
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unless its your family member or best friend and their significant other is cheating and had proof. NOT HEARSAY, I would stay out of it. Not your life, not your business.
Only if you know for absolute sure that it is true and it has to do with someone very close to you, and it's to prevent them from getting hurt more later on.
My new rule is "mind your business." I used to be one of the nosiest people but now have decided it's best to stay out of stuff. You might be sad, but it would make the person even sadder if you told. Keep it to yourself.

It's hard, though.
It's a hard situation. I agree with all of the above statements - that if you know the information first hand, and it's not something you heard from someone else... and the person it affects is family or so close they may as well be, you may consider telling them.

That said - it's been my experience that people who can't see the light for themselves, don't usually take kindly, or even believe it when the light is shined in their face FOR them.
In almost all circumstances I adhere to the 'loose lips sink ships' and 'they shoot the messenger philosophy'.
It can depend on the situation but I've found that often when I think I know all the facts I don't and frequently I just make things worse.
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