father in law passed

Its been a really rough couple of years for our family. My brother in law passed away in February from throat cancer. He was only 50. He battled it for 16 months before he could no longer fight. Then in March my uncle passed from Leukemia and kidney failure after a 2 year battle with it. Then last night my father in law passed. He was 80. He had been living with Parkinsons for the past couple of years and 3 weeks ago they found several cancer spots in him. Im just glad he didnt have to suffer for long. My daughter graduates from high school this Friday, same day as his funeral will be. We are going through with her graduation plans, as Im sure its what my f-i-l would want, but my husband will be at the funeral, as he should be. Its just very hard on all of us at this time.

They say bad things happen in 3's,well we've had our 3! Ready for some happy time now!
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I am so sorry :cry:
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I firmly agree with the law of 3's - so YES, your family has had enough and better times should be on your way!

:ghug: to all the family as they get through this rough time :ghug:
I am so sorry for your loss. we also believe in the theory of "threes"...so hopefully you are done with bad times and moving toward better.. We send our sheepie sympathies to you and your family :ghug:
:ghug: Sending hugs :ghug:
Hi,

I'm so sorry you are going through such a hard year and how difficult it must be regarding the funeral and your daughters graduation. I hope despite the loss of her grandpa your daughter celebrates her day with pride and joy.

Hugs to you
Marianne
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Thank you everyone. One of the hardest things was when my 12 year old son said he was going to stop praying because God never listens to him. I told him maybe grandpa prayed to God to end his pain so he thought that was the prayer he should answer. That seem to ease his mind a little. Its so hard seeing my kids go through this. My son was so close to both his grandpa and uncle. I wish I could take his pain away. Hes such a sweet and sensitive boy, seeing him hurt but trying to be strong for me and his dad just kills me.
I know we will get through this, just sometimes I want to get on the highest mountain and yell MERCY!!!!!!!!! I GIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks for all your well wishes, they really mean a lot.
I'm sorry for your loss and the tough times you've had recently.
Something tells me Grandpa will be with you at your daughters graduation despite everyone being there for him at his funeral. I am sure you will all miss him terrribly...his son was there for him as well and they will be without pain which gives some comfort...it is so hard for a 12 year old to deal with death...I lost my father at 15 and it was really hard...for years I felt he was with me and could see everything I did...I think it kept me from making bad choices...I truly believe our loved ones are in a different realm and await us...when John Edwards tells of seeing animals coming thru with loved ones it makes me feel good...watching him give readings always makes me feel better about loved ones that have passed...congrats to your daughter on graduation...hopefully her future will bring joy after a period of sadness. :ghug: :ghug: :ghug:
I agree,grandpa's spirit with be with your daughter at her graduation. I am so sorry you have had so much in such a short time. That is a lot for a family to go through. Congratulations on your daughters graduation :ghug:
So sorry for all your family has been thru this year.
I am so sorry for all of your losses this year. :ghug: to give you strength.

Tears,
:ghug: So sorry for your loss.
I'm really sorry about all that's happened. :cry:

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It is especially difficult when it comes so soon after other losses. Many thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Although it is very overwhelming now, good times will come again.
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