more bad news for Max ....

Max just tried to settle down after his granddad died and it was difficult anyway as for him he was like a dad too as he never had one.

Finishing in his previous clinic after 6 weeks, he started monday, 23.8. a new clinic where they at the same time, can find out what kind of job he would like/suitable for and then find an appropriate apprentice for him and also continue the talks etc. with him.

on the first day of arrival he met Sofie, a 21 year old girl, pretty, long blond hair and slim and they straight hit it off and liked each other. She was in the clinic because she couldnt concentrate in her apprentice and wanted later continue with her job. Max and her also had last week a lovely birthday (he got 22!), they went to the cinema and had a icecream afterwards.

She was very shy and didnt come out a lot but she got better with every day. Not even the doctors assumed there would be something wrong with her!

on wednesday she had an appointment in the morning for an apprentice (her mom lived in berlin, her dad died when she was a child and she only came to munich for her apprentice and missed Berlin), we dont know if she ever turned up there and max send her a text at 12pm whether she would come swimming as they all waited for her and he called her later too but nobody answered.

.... he was told yesterday: SHE KILLED HERSELF !!!

I dont know what to say anymore, I've met her and she was lovely, Max started really to like her alot, why does he have to suffer soo much????? :( :( :( :( :(

... i cried all night and still do, feel soo sad for Sofie and why didnt she tell anyone? She was on the right place to get help and Max would have loved soo much to help her too! They had plans for the weekend and it's all gone now !! xxxx

... they send me home from work as I'm not able to work at all today!! :cry:
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Oh, Monika, that is so very sad. A young woman, obviously troubled but who could not see help was at hand. Your son who is also fragile is equally distressed both for her but also his own situation. And you as a mother.......sad and frightened.

Hopefully this will give Max the push to work even harder towards regaining his health.

:ghug:
:( That has to be so difficult for Max. So incredibly sad that this young lady did this.

I hope the clinic will be offering support for Max and the others who knew her.
Keep communication open at home to help get through this.
How awful.
It is hard to understand that level of despair.
Monika I'm so sad to hear your terrible news.
Prayers for you, Max and Sophie's family. Such a tragic loss of a young life. Its so hard to understand that depth of despair.
Oh Monika that is so so sad. Poor Max as well how much more heart ache has he got to take. I wish there was something I could say to help him. Just tell him to be strong and that he made her last few days happy. He must learn from her death and try to come to terms with life...hugs for you and for Max xxxx
So sorry that Max is having such a tough time--special thoughts and prayers for you both. :ghug:
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