Why isn't there a sick pass for when you're on vacation?

Let's sum up my husband's visit. I got sick. Then lil J got sick. Yuki is acting very strange (not pooping) and the vet said she has a urinary tract infection. Something about her vulva being big or something so she's more susceptible to infections. It's not funny, but it was weird having her tell us about how her lady part is too big. :lol: ...and then while lil J got more sick and I got completely better, my husband got sick a day before he left.

He left last night at 10 p.m. There were so many other soldiers with us that i didn't think it would be emotional. Then a passenger who had been talking to us for the past hour asked if lil J was traveling with him too. We said, "no, our little son can't go to iraq and if he could, mommy wouldn't allow it." The passenger had no idea he was leaving for Iraq. Something about that moment made it hit hard for my husband and me. We told lil J to "kiss daddy goodbye" ...and I basically had to walk off and not turn back after that because I completely lost it.

Sigh............................... I'm soo sad now and yuki won't let me touch her. She still howling at the garage door as if mommy left daddy in the garage and won't let him in. Every time I try to pull her upstairs, she keeps ramming into the upstairs gate until I open it, so she can go back downstairs and wait for her daddy. :cry:
Somehow I felt she knew he was leaving because a few days before he left, she began to be super clingy with him and refusing to be left behind.

Thanks for all your support.


(for those interested, I got sick the day "the time was right" ...so no lil beans are on the way.)




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I'm so sorry you all got sick, and that he had to go back. It seems too soon....

How's that jellybean jar doing?
Awww L, Im sorry you all got sick...what a bummer! Yuki will be herself in no time, but im sure that her mood right now isnt helping yours...youre all feeling it....

Hope youre all feeling a little better now...chin up L!! Mr. J will continue to stay in our thoughts and prayers...

and post some pictures....I love your avatar :D
Depends how you look at it...

it's almost out of white, so there's only one color left to go through ....BLUE!

My husband says I need to add 3 more months of jellybeans since that's how long they've been extended.

I don't want to. I rather feel good about the jar being empty at the year mark (oct 1st), and then worry about adding 3 more months. I'm just weird I guess. I need as many feel good as I can get.


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Oh no...you guys all getting sick while Mr. J was home...that just doesn't seem fair.
I hope you guys managed to have some good family time together....

I love the pics of Lil J and daddy...so special.

I hope Yuki feels better soon too.....
Mrs J love your new Avatar!!!! Mr. J and Lil J look so good together. :D I'm sorry all of you where sick, including Yuki, during Mr J's big visit. I am sorry you have to add 90 more jelly beans to your jar. It doesn't seem fair. I hope everything goes back to "normal" soon at your place as you wait for the next visit.

Stay strong,
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I absolutely cannot imagine sending yhour husband off AGAIN!!!!!! Here's hoping that darn jelly bean jar is empty SOON!!!!!!!!!!
Oh sweetie! I'm so sorry you had to deal with all that while hubby was home! Here's hoping the rest of his deployment goes by SUPER fast for all of you. Is Lil J any feeling better?


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and you know what they say about beans, it's not over, till AF sings!
That photo is just wonderful, Joah...brought tears to my eyes. Im so glad I got to meet all of you guys while Mr. J was in town! :D I really hope that amid all the revolving illness, there were lots of fun, happy moments for Mr. J to take back with him.
Poor Yuki! :( Lets plan a puppy play date ASAP....Bert will cheer her right up....or at least annoy her too much to feel sad :roll: :twisted:
I'm sorry you were sick, and lil J and Yuki and Mr J! At least you got to be together.

And wow, Ginny...that's some impressive emoticon show!
Aw, Jo, I'm so sorry everybody had to take a "sick" turn while Mr. J was home. Isn't that just Murphy's Law though?? :roll:

I bet it was still great to see him, though, and let him see you, lil J and Yuki. And poor Yuki!! Seeing her that sad can't be doing you any good either. :pupeyes:
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Aw, Jo, I'm so sorry everybody had to take a "sick" turn while Mr. J was home. Isn't that just Murphy's Law though?? :roll:

I bet it was still great to see him, though, and let him see you, lil J and Yuki. And poor Yuki!! Seeing her that sad can't be doing you any good either. :pupeyes:


Yes, definitely glad to see my husband. He called from Dallas a few minutes ago and told me how great it felt to see his family, so that made me feel good. :hearts: He's not too vocal about his emotions, but this is one of those times where words weren't necessary. I loved seeing him play with his son. They both hated lil j's bedtime ...like "do we really have to go to sleep mommmmmmmmm...".
Aw, sorry everyone got sick, but I'm happy you got to see him. I can't even imagine how you feel. Love the pictures of your babies!
I'm sorry too everyone was sick. That is hard as time is short for the visit home. The photo of the two men in your life is just the most precious and lovely photo. :D

J I can't imagine how you are feeling it must be so hard to say hello and goodbye again in such a short time.

I hope Yuki settles down soon for you, she must be so confused at the moment.

Sending wishes that time flies real quick for you to be all together again.

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I am sorry to hear everyone got sick. :(
At least you had a great visit. :)
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(for those interested, I got sick the day "the time was right" ...so no lil beans are on the way.)


That doesn't mean a lil bean is not on the way..... You have more than one day. I believe there is a 3 day window.
So... wishing you luck!!

Sorry Mr J had to go back and I hope the time passes quickly.
There should be sick leave for vacations. . . :evil:

It's wonderful you got to see your husband and be together as a family. I hope he gets home safe and think of it this way: it is one day LESS of three months now. . .

Poor Yuki. Give her some special kisses from Bingley. :hearts:
I'm so sorry. (((HUGS))) As much as the visits are nice, they are sooo hard when sending them back. I'm sorry you got sick too. Jason had to go to California last week for his grandfather's funeral, and he got really ill too. It seems like the germs always hit at the worst possible time.
Sorry to hear about your husband's grandfather :( I'm sick of everyone being sick. Lil J's bacteria infection? isn't getting better, and Yuki seems to be having urinary problems still. Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

stupid civilian nurse called (which my husband always brags about being 10X better than military doctors) to check up on my son. I tell her he has a very violent cough that I'm worried about b/c I imagine after this long, his throat has to be super sore. She replies with ".......aweeeeee." Hey idiot, it was a question/concern!!!!!! ...that IS why you called right?!?!?! To check up on him? I said, so I'm assuming his antibiotics will clear it up? She replied with "oh, okay..." WTH?!?! I just flat out hungup. I hate little patience ...something I should work on, I guess.
I am so sorry that you are having to be so sad. We will all have to pray for him until he is home again. :( :(

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I'm very sorry for all your sickness and what bad timing it was but keep your chin up You sound like a great wife that a serviceman may be proud of and what a wonderful picture of LilJ kissing his Dad :D
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